As long as we have a rule about illegitimate content, we cannot accept:
"Trust me, it's OK. I can't tell you the details."
Because then every poster could say that and the rule would be negated de facto. As the sticky in the General section has said for years, the onus is on you. If you won't or can't bear that, then I am afraid that is your problem.
I regret that you find my moderation annoying. Perhaps some meditation or other distraction may bring you relief.
[Speaking here for myself and not Doom9 or any other mod.]